Yes the phrase “all the nice people are in the friend-zone” is true. Stop asking where they’re at. Think about it, people of the opposite gender that you trust and get along with are your friends right? But there’s always that one thing that prevents you from taking it higher. He/she isn’t as good-looking as that other guy/girl I know nothing about, etc. Start opening your eyes and try to notice that you should start looking at the people you keep close. For me I’m not in the relationship mood. Everyone here is married or engaged so it does make me feel a little lonely but I’d rather go on random dates to meet people and have company.